Essei 3 : Boys Will Be Boys

Boys we know as usual they are leader in family or unity. So they must show good character like responsible, honest, kind for to be the role model to other people. If we want other people respect us, we must respect other people first.


Now days, all people know who are actually boy. As usual,boy hard to strict about their hygiene. They heedless what other people said. They are defilements because since they are children all house hold chores, their mother or sister do it for them. They thought only girls must do all household chores and inappropriate if boys do it. Because of that, during they register as a student and must stay at the hostel for example at the university, they become troubled because they don’t know how to iron and wash their clothes. This should not happen, despite them as a boy, they must know all about things although it is only work for girls.


As we know sometimes words come from boy, we cannot accept as true because they just kidding or just joking. For example, one boy said he fall in love with this girl but they just say it but not mean it. At all time, they just want to test and be the subject is a girl in their experiment. Now, it is hard to find a boy who is sincere in a relationship. Occasionally, they just add experience or just want to tell their friends they have a girlfriend. Boy also not punctual and do not know how to manage their time as possible. Some boys not settle their task or assignment on due date. They just copy the answer from other friend or only are sleeping group. As usually, the victim of the situation is a girl. At this time, boys will do everything for their task will complete and the lecturer not mad to them. They also do a job or task at last minute. If lecturer wants their assignment tomorrow, they will do it the night before.


Now, the human population is increasing year by year. But, in IPT or IPTS more girls than boys were studying there. Boys are not interested to continue their study they assume that study is burden to them. Because of that, after SPM they prefer go to work as a promoter at the shopping center and others for to find money for their life. They quite shammed to ask their parents for money. They also thought, job is more important than continue for further study will waste time and money. For them if not interested to do something, better not to do it because if not get anything. If they go to work, they will get money at the end of month and one more factor is famous now is many graduate are unemployment in long term.


Just one more thing interested about boys is, they do not take very seriously in their study. They always not settle their work, stay away from class, sleep in class, do not bring book, not copy note was given by teacher and so many to list down but although they have bad behaviors, they always tip top in their study hard to make good performance in study. In Islam, boys have nine senses and only one passion but girls have only one sense and nine passions. I thought, because of that boys are easier to understand what lecturer teach and more intelligent than girls. But they always ungrateful what was given by God to them.


If I had the chance to choose my future husband, certainly I want my future husband have faith in God and knowledgeable about religion and perhaps he can be a good husband for me. If he has knowledge, he can guide me to be a good wife and control my good behavior as a wife. He also must have high education than me. For example, if I have diploma he must have degree from a university and he also must have permanent job. As a man he must be responsible for all particular as a husband. I hope he loves me, respect the people older than him. I am interested go over a man were kind, friendly, funny, tolerant and not hot tempered.


I thought all people in the world have an idol in their life. I also have too. My idol is my father. His name is Abd Rasit bin Mohamad. I choose my father be my idol because he was responsibility man, honest, kind and sometimes he becomes funny. He never mad or blame me if I am wrong. He just gives advice to me and said don’t do it again. One more thing, I really respect him because he is very punctual about time. He is never late, if he said want to send me back to hostel at 5 o’clock, at the time he was ready sent me back. But whatever what he does, it is good for me to survive my life and be independent girl. I hope you know that, I love you very much Ayah..